Initial Diagnosis


As some of you are already aware, Tom has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, at least stage 3, as of 5/14/2025. We had his first oncology visit on Thursday 5/15. 

The hope is they can do surgery to resect or remove the mass(es). This gives him the best chance of a full recovery. We are waiting for the surgical teams to review his case. 

He is scheduled to have a port placed on Wednesday 5/21 for his chemo to be administered. He will receive chemo whether surgery is an option or not. So far we like our local oncology team, but have also reached out to the oncology team at Mayo to request a consult. They are ranked 3rd in the nation for treatment of pancreatic cancer. We have requested his imaging/records to be sent for review and determination regarding which provider can see him and when we can get an appointment. 

We will try to update at least weekly on this site to make sure everyone has access to updates. Thank you for any ongoing support, prayers, good thoughts, positive vibes, and anything else you want to send our way!


Thanks, 

Tom, Stephanie, Vivian, and Scarlett




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  1. MishMay 19, 2025 at 4:46 PM

    You fight Tommy! Get to Mayo because they are the best in the Region! Nothing against Stoddard, but it's Mayo! Steph - you're the best person to be caretaker with your background. I'll be following your famiky's progress while you fight and win!

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